Sunday, May 22, 2011

Introduction to Momentary Marriage by John Piper


Why study Momentary Marriage? I read this book two years ago before embarking on my marriage with GraceAnna and it was profoundly influential in my life because I think it strikes the Biblical roots of what marriage is. The book was so important and foundational in my thinking on marriage that I decided that when I am a pastor, I am going to have every couple I marry read this book before marrying them. It really is that important because marriage is that important. In our culture today where marriage is attacked and marginalized, I can't think of a more important topic that we as Christians need to clearly understand and practice. Below are the notes that I used to begin the Introduction of the book with the Knowing God class at Community Bible Church.

Marriage is more than a relationship between a man and a woman. It is the institutional building block of culture. God instituted marriage is His pre-fall, primary means of cultural order:

Genesis 2:18-25 – Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought the to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. The man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. “Therefore a man shall leave father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.

What is the difference between marriage and a live-in relationship?

What does it mean when it says that a man and his wife are one flesh?

Here is what I think is unique about marriage: It involves God’s common grace:

Mark 10:2-12 – And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife” He answered them, “What did Moses command you? They said, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away.” And Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

And in the house the disciples asked him again about this matter. And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”

God establishes every marriage as a gift of his common grace. This is one result of the cross. Instead of receiving God’s wrath, God permits non-believers to marry and experience happiness and oneness in relationship. I believe that this is a result of the cross and an act of grace that God extends to even the worst of sinners.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

An Apologetic for Christ and His Work and an Explanation of What the Resurrection Accomplished

An Apologetic for Christ and His Work and an Explanation of What the Resurrection Accomplished

By: Grant R. Castleberry

Note: The Apologetic material was obtained from www.carm.org and Lee Strobel’s book, The Case for Christ.

Did Jesus really exist?

The Existence of Jesus is more established than the existence of the Roman Emperor of the time, Tiberius Caesar, who rained during his day:

1.) 9 New Testament authors make reference to Christ (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, James, Jude, and the writer of Hebrews)

2.) 20 Early church fathers make reference to Christ (Clement of Rome, 2 Clement, Ignatius, Polycarp, Martyrdom of Polycarp, Didache, Barnabas, Shepherd of Hermas, Fragments of Papias, Justin Martyr, Aristides, Athenagoras, Theophilus of Antioch, Quadratus, Aristo of Pella, Melito of Sardis, Diognetus, Gospel of Peter, Apocalypse of Peter, and Epistula Apostolorum.)

3.) 9 secular sources mention Christ (Josephus (Jewish historian), Tacitus (Roman historian), Pliny the Younger (Roman politician), Phlegon (freed slave who wrote histories), Lucian (Greek satirist), Celsus (Roman philosopher), Mara Bar Serapion (prisoner awaiting execution), Suetonius, and Thallus.)

4.) Tiberius Caesar has 10 sources that mention him within 150 years of his life; so there are almost four times as many sources for the existence of Christ than for Caesar.

Did Jesus really die by Roman Crucifixion?

Read the fourteenth and fifteenth chapters of Mark’s Gospel.

Yes, not only do all four Gospels along with the rest of the New Testament affirm Jesus’ death via crucifixion, but historical writers Josephus, Tacitus, Lucian, Mara Bar, and the Talmud all reference the crucifixion of Christ. Here is a quote from Tacitus “Nero fastened the guilt [of the burning of Rome] and inflicted the most exquisite tortures on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from whom the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of one of our procurators, Pontius Pilatus” (Tacitus, Annals 15.44).

Was Christ really resurrected from the dead?

Read the sixteenth chapter of Mark’s Gospel.

Yes. The resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead is an established historical fact.

1.) Jesus was buried outside Jerusalem in Joseph of Arimathea’s grave (Mk. 15:43), so it would have been impossible for Christianity to spread through Jerusalem (which it did), if the body of Jesus was still in the tomb in Jerusalem.

2.) The first century enemies of Christianity presuppose an empty tomb (Matthew 28:11-15; Justin Martyr, Trypho 108; Tertullian, De Spectaculis 30) in combating Christianity. They have contrived various explanations on why Jesus’ tomb is empty.

3.) Christianity documents the testimony of women to the fact of the resurrection during a period of time when a woman’s testimony was not trusted. Why would the Disciples of Christ base a lie on the testimony of “untrusted witnesses?” Of course, the answer is that the women who saw the empty tomb (Mark 16:4-5) were indeed telling the truth.

4.) Jesus appeared to over 500 eye witnesses besides the eleven disciples after the resurrection (1 Corinthians 15:6), and their claims collaborated each other so that no one could refute their witness (Paul saw Jesus after His death and also, with Luke, interviewed all the living witnesses in Jerusalem circa twenty years later).

5.) Almost all of Jesus’ disciples along with many in the early church (i.e. Clement, Tertullian, Polycarp, etc.) died as martyrs because they would not renounce their belief in the living Jesus. It is folly to believe that hundreds would die to protect a falsehood.

6.) Jesus’ tomb can be seen empty to this day outside Jerusalem.

Why should we believe in Jesus and what did Christ accomplish for us in His death?

Many believe that at the end of life, they will appear before God, and God will judge them based on their good deeds and bad deeds. They think that if they were a relatively good person during their life, went to church, and believed in the historical death of Jesus that they’ll go to Heaven. However, those that were truly evil will go to Hell. Many, when they think of God’s judgment at the end of their life also place their hope in the love and mercy of God. They hope that God will accept them based on the goodness of His character. After all, isn’t He a loving God?

However, the problem with those ideas is that the Bible describes every single person on the earth as an awful sinner and transgressor of God’s law. Romans 3:23 says, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God…” and that the punishment for any one of our sins before a righteous God is eternal death and punishment (it’s not based on the gravity of the sin that is committed, but on the gravity of the person that is sinned against, namely God). Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death…” Since God is a righteous judge, he cannot leave any person’s sin unpunished. Every sin, to the smallest offense such as lying, lusting, fabricating a story, cheating, is punishable by death and an eternity in Hell because the character of God has been violated.

However, the Good News of the Bible (called The Gospel in the New Testament) is that God, rich in mercy and love, has given us hope and extended peace. He has provided salvation through the death of Christ for all those that believe in Jesus as Savior. The death of Christ was not merely symbolic or historic. Christ, who lived a perfect life, died for the sins of the world, so anyone that professes faith in Christ will be saved. Paul went on to say in Romans 3:24 and 25 “and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. This was to show God’s righteousness, because in his divine forbearance he had passed over former sins. It was to show his righteousness at the present time, so that he might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus.

To be counted righteous before God in light of your sins, you must believe in Christ! That’s it! Paul and Silas preached in Acts 16:31, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved…” Notice, you are not just believing in what Christ accomplished for you: namely His perfect life, His death, His resurrection (even the demons believe this and they are not saved), but you are trusting in the very person of Christ Himself for your salvation. This is the Good News that God offers you: your ultimate salvation (your escape of judgment) is a free gift offered to you. To receive it, you must believe in Christ. But what type of belief is this? Is it a mere intellectual acquiescence to the fact that Jesus is Savior? No! Jesus describes the type of faith we must have in Him in Matthew 13:44, “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.” By believing in Christ, you see Him as the most valuable thing in the Universe! Your faith has as its object, Christ, who you see as the ultimate treasure. Also, the type of faith that believes in Christ is the type that believes in the whole person of Christ. You cannot believe in Jesus as Savior and then reject Him as God (as the Jehovah’s Witnesses do), Lord, Creator, High Priest, our Mediator before God, etc. In recent years, there has been the terrible false notion that you can believe in Christ as Savior but not acknowledge or submit to His Lordship. But such a belief divides the person of Christ and presents a false Christ! That is why Paul said in the before mentioned verse, “Believe on the Lord Jesus…” Christ is both Lord and Savior and to not acknowledge Him as such is not true belief. We must believe in Jesus as all who He is revealed to be in sacred Scripture, not who we want Him to be. This belief in Christ is solely in Christ and in nothing else.

Hopefully the following formulas will clarify this “Good News”

Works + Church Attendance + Belief in the Historical Works of Jesus = Eternity in Hell

Works + Belief in the Historical Jesus = Eternity in Hell

Faith in Jesus Christ as Savior + Works = Eternity in Hell

Here’s the only right formula that is saving!

Faith in Jesus Christ as Savior = Eternity with God in Heaven + Knowing God Now + Good Works

Only on the merit of Christ’s perfect life, death, and resurrection can someone be saved. When someone places their faith in Jesus Christ, they are resting on Christ alone for their salvation, in the final analysis. That is why faith in Christ and good works together does not work (the traditional Catholic belief). By adding good works as a requirement, a person stops relying solely on the merit of Christ and starts relying on their personal merit before God as well. Therefore their faith in Christ is not a full faith, but a half-hearted faith. That is why so many Catholics struggle with assurance and wrestle with the worry of unconfessed sin. That is why Martin Luther, before he started believing solely on Christ, would rush to confess every small sin to another priest. We cannot rest on our own merit. Indeed, all of our righteous deeds before God are “like filthy rags (Is. 64:6).”

Why then was the resurrection of Christ necessary if His payment for sins was complete at the cross?

There are multiple answers to this question, I will name five, although there are many more.

1.) The first and most obvious is that if Christ had not risen from the dead, than He would have been a liar (and NOT God) because he prophesied many times that he would be killed and would be raised from the dead. For example Luke 9:21-22 states “And he strictly charged and commanded them to tell this to no one, saying “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised.” A liar cannot be God!

2.) God, by His nature, must eternally exist. If the God Man, Christ, was truly God, his physical body cannot stay dead. Thus, Jesus paid the penalty for sins (according to Romans 6:23 the penalty for sin is death), but Jesus Himself never sinned. So because He is God and is sinless, death cannot contain Him! And therefore death cannot contain those that are in Christ! Thus the Apostle Paul says, “Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting (1 Corinthians 15:54, 55)?”

3.) Paul says in his first letter to the church at Corinth in 1 Corinthians 15:14 “And if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is in vain and your faith is in vain.” Why would this be the case? The reason why our faith in a dead Jesus would be in vain is that Jesus’ resurrection was God’s stamp of approval of His acceptance of Christ’s sacrifice for sin. The resurrection of Christ is the assurance of our justification! That is why Paul ties the death and resurrection of Christ together in 2 Corinthians 5:15: “and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.” Do you see how the resurrection is linked to the work of the atonement of Christ? Think of the resurrection as the receipt that God gave Christ, showing his acceptance of His sacrifice for sins. The resurrection is our assurance because if Christ had not been raised, then we would have no hope of also been raised after our death. But since Christ was raised, we know that if we belong to Christ as his child in faith, we will be also raised with Him on the last day. Thus Jesus says in John 6:40, “For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who looks on the Son and believes in him should have eternal life, and I will raise Him up on the last day.” It is clear that if Jesus was not raised from the dead, like I mentioned earlier, we would not have hope for a future resurrection.

4.) Christ must live to act as a Mediator between us and God. Paul says in his first letter to Timothy, “For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Jesus Christ (1 Timothy 2:5). For all those that are God’s children, Christ intercedes for them (Hebrews 7:25). We need the intercession of Christ to approach a Holy God. Thus we need a living Christ!

5.) When Christ was raised He had a glorified body! This also guarantees our future glorification when Christ returns (Romans 8:30). John says in his first epistle, “Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is (1 John 3:2-3).” As believers we are guaranteed bodies that will not die or decay! We will be like Christ!

Thank God for sending His Son Jesus to live a perfect life, die for our sins, and for raising Him from the dead!

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Growing in Spiritual Leadership and Biblical Submission

Lesson 7: Defining Female Submission According to the Bible.

“When the New Testament speaks about the fullness of grace which we find in Christ, it does not mean only forgiveness, pardon and justification. Christ has done much more for us. He died for us, but he also lived for us. Now he has sent his own Spirit to us so that we might draw on his strength. He grew in grace, and when we draw on his power we shall likewise grow in grace.” –Sinclair Ferguson

Christ didn’t come just to die! But to perfectly obey all the commandments and fulfill all of the prophecies. He lived for us! And he sympathizes with us!

Heb 2:17-18 – For this reason he had to be made like his brothers in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God…Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.

Heb 4:15 – For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet was without sin.

Not only is Christ the author of our salvation, but He is the Pioneer of our salvation. He’s gone before us, and blazed the path. He’s done so perfectly! That’s why we are exhorted by Christ himself to follow Him (Luke 9:23). He is our great pioneer that lived for us! Not only did he blaze the path as an example, but He also died for our imperfections, so that we are not saved by our obedience to His law, but by His grace. That’s why Paul says in Gal 6:14 “But far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.” We boast in the cross, because that’s where we find grace, it is the cross that not only saves us, but by which we have the power to live the Christian life. That’s why Paul boasts in the cross.

And that is why as husband’s, spiritual leaders in the church and family, they must display servant leadership. Because the savior served us by giving Himself for us.

“The reason why we lack assurance of his grace is because we fail to focus on that spot where he has revealed it. But if we fail to focus our understanding there, we will fail to grow in grace.” – Sinclair Ferguson

As spiritual leaders, men must strive to grow not only in grace, but in their ability to spiritually lead. -Small Steps (You can’t go from being a baby Christian to a spiritual giant overnight) -Spiritual Leadership begins with taking the initiative
“Spiritual Leadership looks different for different men.“ – John Piper “Biblical Submission looks different for different women.” – John Piper 1 Peter 3:1-7 What Biblical Submission is NOT! 1) Submission does NOT mean agreeing with everything your husband says. 2) Submission does NOT mean leaving your brain or your will at the wedding altar. 3) Submission does NOT mean avoiding effort to change your husband. 4) Submission does NOT mean putting the will of the man above the will of Christ. 5) Submission does NOT mean that the wife gets her spiritual strength from her husband. 6) Submission does NOT mean acting out of slavish fear toward the husband. 7) Submission does NOT mean blind or unqualified obedience to the husband. Definition of Biblical Submission: Submission is the divine calling of a wife to honor and affirm her husband’s leadership and help carry it through according to her gifts. Submission is an inclination of the will to say yes to the husband’s leadership and a disposition of the spirit to support his initiatives. 1.) Biblical submission honors the Lord. 2.) Biblical submission honors the husband and the wife. 3.) Submission is not a place the husband puts the wife, but an “inclination” of the will of the woman to follow the leadership of the man and “support his initiatives.”

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Abortion in our land

As a father with a little girl that is about to be born next month, abortion has been weighing especially heavy on my heart in recent days. I have stayed awake in bed almost every night for the past month praying for my baby girl, and my heart is already with her. It makes me wonder how as a nation we tolerate the murders of millions of defenseless children? And from a Biblical perspective, how long until we receive God's judgment. I pray that on account of the many believers in our country that God would have mercy. God has already spoken on this issue! But in an age where God is mocked and his existence is questioned, his word is not valued. As we say in the Marine Corps, "Stand-by!" Our time is coming. Do not be fooled, what we sow we will also reap.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Knowing God Chapter 15 - The Wrath of God

-Wrath: old English word which means intense anger and indignation

-God's wrath, fury, and anger are referred to more in Holy Scripture than His love.

-Strong verse in OT that refers to God's wrath:
Nahum 1:2-8

-Strong verse in NT that refers to God's wrath:
2 Thess. 1:7-10

2 Points about God's Wrath:

1.) God's wrath is always judicial.
Romans 2:5-6

2.) God's wrath is something people choose for themselves
John 3:18-19

The meaning of God's Wrath:
God resolute action in punishing sin
Romans 2:5
Romans 5:8-9
Romans 3:5-7

The revelation of God's Wrath:
God's wrath is imprinted on our conscience
Romans 1:18

The deliverance from God's Wrath:
Romans 5:8-9
Romans 3:24-25

Knowing God Chapter 14 - God As Judge

Genesis 18:25 - "Will not the Judge of the earth do right?"

Psalm 75:7 - "It is God who judges."

Hebrews 12:25 - "God the judge of all."

Think in your mind about the worst sins. . . God will right every wrong.

God does not judge in a whimsical or capricious way.

Old Testament Examples:

-God judged Adam and Even and expelled them from the Garden.
-God judged the world in Noah's day (Gen. 6-8).
-God judged Sodom and Gomorrah (Gen. 18-19).
- God judged Israel's Egyptian captives (Ex. 7).
-Myriad of other OT examples.

New Testament Examples:

-Judgment falls on the Jews for rejecting Christ (Matt. 21:43-44).
-Ananias and Sapphira for lying to God (Acts 5).
-Herod judged for his pride (Acts 12:21-23).
-The Christians in Corinth for irreverance to the Lord's Supper (1 Cor. 11:29-32).

Ecclesiastes 12:14 - "For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil."

The Bible speaks of a Future Judgment:
-James 5:9
-1 Peter 4:1-6
-2 Timothy 4:6-8
-Acts 17:30-31
-John 5:22

4 Thoughts or Qualities about our God:
1.) God has ultimate authority.
-God made us and everything in the universe
-God has a right to demand righteousness

2.) The Judge is both good and right.
-God loves righteousness and hates iniquity
-God sent His son to die for sinners

3.) The Judge is a person of wisdom, able to discern truth
-There is NO instance where wrong goes unpunished

4.) The Judge has the power to execute a sentence
-God is his own executioner

Retribution:
-Romans 2:6-11
-The character of God guarantees that all wrongs be righted.
-Jesus is the ultimate agent of God's justice.

-Matthew 25:31-46
-Those that are justified will not be cast aside

-But Christians have to give an account for their actions.
-1 Cor. 3:12-15
-2 Cor. 5:10

Romans 8:1 - "There is now, therefore, no condemnation for those in Christ..."